While many ‘influencers’ have made self-care look expensive and indulgent, it doesn’t actually have to be that way. There are plenty of ways to care for your mental, emotional, and physical health without spending much, or anything at all.
Here are 39 ways you can do just that.
Fresh air, sunlight, and movement are all helpful for mental health. A quick walk in your local park or around the block can lift your mood. Plus, it’s a great way to feel connected with the community and nature around you.
Your bedtime routine is completely up to you, so have fun designing a sleep hygiene that feels truly refreshing and calming.
You could try turning off screens at least 30 minutes before bed, dimming the lights, and listening to something calming, or writing down three good things from your day.
In the middle of the day, have a glass of water and take a few moments to pause. It’s a basic but powerful way to care for your body.
Plus, with so many of us glued to our screens most hours of the day, it’s easy to forget to hydrate our bodies properly.
Use small moments, like waiting for the kettle to boil, to stretch your arms, legs, or shoulders. It’s a quick, simple way to release tension and care for your body.
Preparing a healthy meal can be grounding. Try a basic recipe with ingredients you already have and take your time while cooking.
Borrow books, audiobooks, or even attend free events. Libraries are an underrated wellbeing resource.
Sometimes, the very reason you might be feeling cluttered is because of the clutter in your living or working space. Try clearing a single drawer, shelf, or corner in your room. You might be surprised at how this simple thing can make you feel lighter.
Give yourself a break from texts and social media. Use the time to read, rest, or enjoy some quiet.
Meditation can help you settle your thoughts and feel connected with your body. There are plenty of free options and resources online, so don’t feel like you have to spend money to meditate.
Instead of a to-do list, try writing down what you actually completed today. It’s a great way to recognise your efforts, express gratitude to yourself, and gain a sense of accomplishment.
Sometimes, reading back on a week’s or a month’s worth of done list can also help remind you that you’ve been showing up, you’ve been doing your best, and you can keep going.
Meaningful connections are a core part of anyone’s wellbeing, but our busy schedules often pull us away from actually nourishing these connections.
Try setting something low-effort with a friend you love being with. Send a quick message, have a phone chat, or ask a friend to join you for a walk or errands. The goal is to reconnect without pressure, and enjoy some genuine company.
Slow, deep breaths help settle your nervous system. Try breathing in for four counts, holding for one, then exhaling for six.
Choose a song that makes you feel good and really listen to it during an intentional moment with yourself. Don’t just listen to it in the background or while multitasking. Actually revel in the music.
Gratitude helps shift your focus. You could write to someone else, or just jot down a moment you appreciated today.
A chapter of a book, a thoughtful article, or even a favourite poem can offer comfort and perspective.
If possible, get outside in the morning. Natural light helps with your sleep rhythm and overall energy.
Send a compliment, offer help, or check in with a neighbour. Supporting others can also support how you feel.
Pick a few short phrases that encourage you. Write them down or say them out loud when you need a boost.
Protecting your time and energy is part of caring for yourself. It’s okay to set boundaries.
Try to have at least one hour each day without screens. Intentionally give your eyes, brain, and attention some time to rest.
Use a bit of lotion or just your hands. A short self-massage can reduce tension, especially after a long day.
Choose a chair, cushion, or corner that feels calm and set it up as your personal spot to relax.
Journalling, drawing, knitting, or writing doesn’t require expensive tools. Just start where you are and with whatever supplies you have, and don’t pressure yourself to make this profitable.
Look for Pilates, fitness, or creative sessions online. Many are free and beginner-friendly.
Take a moment to check in with your body. Close your eyes if it feels comfortable, and slowly bring your attention from head to toe. Notice any tension, discomfort, or areas that feel relaxed.
This body-scan practice can help you reconnect with yourself and highlight physical signs of stress you might not have noticed.
Write down a few things that are important to you. How can you bring those into your week?
Open a window, light a candle, or use essential oils. When you pay attention, a scent can affect how you feel, and you can use that to boost positive feelings.
Laughter lightens your mental load. Choose a short video or comedy podcast that makes you laugh.
Write down a thought that’s weighing on you and ask yourself: Is this definitely true? What else could be going on?
To really process your thoughts, consider journaling in a notebook, a note app, or a private Google Doc, whichever you feel most comfortable with.
Choose a night to slow down. Make tea, dim the lights, and relax with a good book or movie.
Use local parks, walking tracks, or even your backyard to move your body. You don’t need a gym membership to get the benefits of exercise.
Set aside a few dollars each week in a jar, envelope, or an online banking account marked just for you. It could go toward anything that gives you joy, like your favourite dessert, skincare products, brands, or anything else.
Having a dedicated space for even a modest self-care fund can give you a sense of control and something positive to plan for. Plus, it’s nice to have some money set aside for when you feel like spending on yourself a little
Play music while you clean, light a candle while folding laundry, or take pride in making your space more comfortable.
Step away from tasks, take a few deep breaths, drink some water, or just rest. Short breaks can reduce stress and prevent burnout.
Not everything is about big achievements. Remind yourself of how far you’ve come and what you’ve handled recently.
Choose something simple and comforting to do each weekend, like a short walk outdoors, a coffee at home, or a local market visit.
Notice how much time you spend on your phone. If it's feeling too much, try cutting back a little and see how you feel.
Join a local group where you can swap books, share meals, or trade items. It reduces cost and builds community.
Write a note to your future self, tuck $5 into your coat pocket, or plan a free day to rest in a few weeks. A little kindness ahead of time can lift your mood later.
You see, you don’t need a big budget to start looking after your mental and emotional wellbeing. Simple, low-cost self-care activities are often enough to help you feel more grounded, supported, and connected.
If you're finding it hard to care for yourself without guilt, or you’ve been feeling emotionally down, irritable, or drained, consider talking with a therapist.
Self-care doesn’t have to just be “me-time” all the time. Involving others who can support you is also a key part of it.
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