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Couples counselling online, for the two of you

Work through what's going on with an experienced relationship counsellor, together, from home. 80 minute sessions you both join, at a time that suits you both.

A couple smiling together after an online counselling session

The everyday and the big stuff

What couples counselling can help with

You don't need to be in trouble to come. Couples counselling helps with the everyday stuff too, and the earlier you start, the easier it tends to be. Here's what people often come for, and what changes.

The same argument, on repeat

Different topic, same fight. Counselling helps you work out what it is really about, so the next conversation can go differently.

More like flatmates than partners

Nothing dramatic has happened, the closeness has just gone quiet. Small, deliberate steps bring it back.

Rebuilding trust

After a breach, trust can be rebuilt. Your counsellor helps you both say what needs saying, and hear it, safely.

One of you wants it more

Different needs around time, sex, family or money are completely normal. Counselling helps you find a middle you can both live with.

A big change is coming

Moving in, a baby, blending families, a move for work. Getting on the same page before it happens makes all the difference.

Wondering whether to stay

Get clear on what you each want and decide together, whether that is recommitting or separating well.

A couple in a counselling session
80 minute sessions

What to expect

What actually happens in couples counselling

Every couple is different, but sessions follow a clear, well tested path. Here's what to expect, from your first conversation to the tools you take home.

  1. First session

    You each tell your side

    Your counsellor hears from both of you, separately and together, and you agree on what you want out of this. Nobody has to have it figured out yet.

  2. The pattern

    You see the cycle you are stuck in

    Most couples are caught in one pattern that plays out over and over. Naming it, and seeing how each of you keeps it going, changes how the next argument feels.

  3. The tools

    You get things to try at home

    Ways to raise something without it turning into a fight, to repair after one, and to reconnect. Small, practical, and yours to keep.

When one of you isn't sure

Not both on board yet? That's normal

It's rare for two people to be equally keen. Usually one person has been thinking about it for months and the other has just heard about it. There's more than one way in.

Your counsellor

They work for the relationship, not for either of you

A good couples counsellor doesn't take sides. They make sure you both feel heard, help you see the pattern you're caught in, and give you ways to change it. If one of you ever feels ganged up on, they want to know.

Every couples counsellor on Talked is qualified, registered and has been vetted and interviewed before joining. The ones you see here work with couples every week, using approaches built for two people, like the Gottman Method and Imago.

Read their profiles, watch a short video of them talking, and choose someone you can both picture opening up to.

Three of Talked's couples counsellors
Qualified and registered
Works with couples
Private health and other rebates for counselling sessions

Paying for couples counselling

Claiming rebates

Couples sessions run for 80 minutes, so the two of you have time to be heard and still get somewhere. Pricing is simple and shown up front, so you know what you'll pay before you book, and you pay one session at a time with no ongoing commitment.

  • Medicare rebates only apply to individual sessions only, not couples sessions
  • Private health rebates may apply
  • Pay per session. No commitment beyond the next one.

Start couples therapy in 3 steps

  1. 1

    Browse couples therapists

    Filter by gender, language and availability, and read the profiles together.

  2. 2

    Book an 80 minute time

    From a live calendar. Daytime, evening, whatever suits you both.

  3. 3

    Join together

    Open the link at session time from somewhere you can both talk freely.

Good to know

Frequently Asked Questions

Straight answers, so you can decide together.

Do we both need to be in the session?

Yes. A couples session is for the two of you together, with one counsellor, so you both need to be there. If your partner isn't ready yet, you can start on your own. Working on your side of things individually still helps the relationship, and plenty of people begin that way.

Can we join from different locations?

Yes. When you book, you each get your own unique link to join the session, so you can be on the same couch or in different places altogether. It's the same 80 minute session with the same counsellor either way.

Do we have to be in crisis to come?

No, and the earlier you come the easier it tends to be. Most couples wait years longer than they should. If you're having the same argument on repeat, feeling more like flatmates than partners, or just want to get ahead of a big change like moving in or having a baby, that's reason enough.

Why are couples sessions 80 minutes?

Because there are two of you. A standard 50 minute session doesn't leave enough room for both people to be heard and still get somewhere. Eighty minutes gives your counsellor time to hear both sides, notice what's happening between you, and work on it with you in the same session.

Is couples counselling covered by Medicare?

No. Medicare rebates are for individual sessions with a psychologist, and they don't extend to couples sessions. If you have private health insurance with extras cover, many funds pay a rebate on counselling, and you can check yours online in under a minute. Current session fees are on our pricing page.

Can couples counselling be done by a psychologist?

Yes. Couples counselling is a general term, and on Talked it covers sessions with both psychologists and counsellors who work with couples. Whoever you choose, you'll see their qualifications and experience with couples on their profile.

Will the counsellor take sides?

No. Your counsellor works for the relationship, not for either of you. Their job is to make sure you both feel heard, help you understand the pattern you're stuck in, and give you practical ways to change it. If one of you feels ganged up on, that's something to raise, and a good counsellor will want to know.

Is couples counselling the same as relationship or marriage counselling?

Yes. Couples counselling, relationship counselling, marriage counselling and couples therapy all mean the same thing: the two of you working through your relationship with a qualified professional. You don't need to be married, and you don't need to be a particular kind of couple. Any two people in a relationship can book.

Is it confidential?

Yes. What you talk about stays between the two of you and your counsellor, who is bound by professional confidentiality rules. Talked is ISO 27001 certified for information security. The only exceptions are the standard ones, like if someone's safety is at risk, and your counsellor will explain those in your first session.