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How to fall asleep fast?

In a Nutshell

  • Nearly 60% of Australians report regular sleep difficulties, and over 14% may meet criteria for chronic insomnia.

  • Sleep hygiene, mindfulness, grounding techniques, and calming routines can help support faster sleep onset.

  • Persistent difficulty falling asleep could indicate a sleep disorder like insomnia or another mental health condition. It’s ideal to speak to a GP or psychologist as soon as possible.

Sleep is foundational to how you think, feel, and function. So when it becomes harder to sleep and you miss getting the rest you need, everything else can start to feel a little harder, too.

Thankfully, there are practical ways to help your body and mind settle into sleep more easily. We’ll look into each of them in this guide.

Why sleep doesn’t come easily for everyone

According to the Sleep Health Foundation, more than half of Australians report difficulties with sleep at least several nights a week. Additionally, around 14.8% may meet the clinical definition of chronic insomnia.

This pattern includes problems falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking too early, combined with poor energy, focus, or mood during the day.

These sleep difficulties affect people across all life stages and circumstances, often influenced by a mix of stress, habits, health, and mental wellbeing.

If you're finding it difficult to fall asleep, you're likely dealing with one or more of the following:

  • Mental overactivity, such as ruminating thoughts or anxious predictions about the next day

  • An irregular schedule, especially for shift workers or those caring for others

  • Use of screens or stimulants late in the day, which can delay your body's natural wind-down process

  • Disrupted sleep environment, such as light, noise, or discomfort in the bedroom

  • Stress related to work, finances, or relationships, which can keep the nervous system in a heightened state

  • Underlying conditions like insomnia, chronic pain, sleep apnoea, or depression

It’s important to identify what’s contributing to your sleep challenges, as this is the first step to finding a solution. In some cases, your doctor might have to assess you to rule out any medical conditions.

How to fall asleep faster and sleep better

1. Try to keep a steady sleep schedule

Your body thrives on rhythm. Going to bed and waking up at roughly the same time every day helps reinforce your body clock, also known as the circadian rhythm. This regularity makes it easier to feel sleepy at the right time.

Try to avoid sleeping in too long after a restless night. It may be tempting, but it can throw off your sleep pattern. Instead, stick to your usual wake-up time, which will help build up enough sleep pressure for the following night.

2. Set up your bedroom for sleep

A quiet, dark, and comfortable environment supports faster sleep onset. If your bedroom isn't helping you relax, even the best routines may fall short. Here are some bedroom tips to consider:

  • Cool the room to around 15 to 20 degrees Celsius before your bedtime

  • Use blackout curtains or an eye mask to reduce light exposure

  • Add a soft sound or a white noise machine to block out unpredictable noises

  • Choose bedding that feels good and supports your sleeping position

  • Avoid using the bed for work or scrolling, so your brain doesn’t connect these with sleep

3. Create a consistent wind-down routine

Giving yourself time to transition from daytime to bedtime allows your brain to slow down. Choose calming activities you can repeat each night, so your body starts to associate them with rest. You might try:

  • Turning off bright lights and screens an hour before bed

  • Listening to quiet music or an audiobook

  • Reading a physical book that you find calming

  • Taking a warm shower or bath

  • Stretching or doing gentle movement like yoga

  • Writing down what’s on your mind to clear mental clutter

4. Use mindfulness and grounding techniques to settle your mind

When thoughts are racing or you feel emotionally wired, mindfulness techniques can help interrupt the loop and anchor you in the present.

Techniques like doing a body scan meditation, visualisation, or other grounding activities can be especially useful when you're feeling anxious or unsettled.

5. Reduce habits that delay sleep

Some common behaviours can work against your body's natural urge to sleep, even if they feel helpful in the moment. Be mindful of:

  • Taking in caffeine in the afternoon or evening

  • Using alcohol to relax, which can fragment sleep and reduce deep sleep

  • Eating large meals late at night, especially spicy or rich foods

  • Taking long or late naps, which can reduce your sleep drive

  • Watching the clock, which tends to increase frustration and pressure

If you're lying awake for more than 30 minutes, it may help to leave the bed, go to a different room, and do something that doesn’t require a lot of energy until you feel sleepy again.

6. Address what may be happening beneath the surface

If you’ve been feeling constantly wound up, emotionally flat, or stuck in unhelpful patterns, your difficulty falling asleep may be part of a broader picture.

Ongoing stress, anxiety, or the strain of a difficult relationship can all affect sleep, even if you're exhausted.

Cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) is a short-term, structured approach that can help you identify and shift sleep-disrupting behaviours and beliefs. It's the first-line treatment for chronic insomnia and is available through psychologists, sleep clinics, and some telehealth services across Australia.

Of course, speaking with a therapist specialising in sleep issues is a necessary first step here.

Final thoughts

Good sleep doesn't always come easily, but it is possible to improve.

If falling asleep feels out of reach most nights, you don’t have to keep tossing and tossing to no avail. Consider the tips in this guide, and consider professional support if improving your routines and bedroom setup doesn’t make a significant difference.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How long should it take to fall asleep?

For most adults, falling asleep within 10 to 20 minutes after getting into bed is common. If you often find yourself lying awake for longer than 30 minutes, and it’s affecting how you feel during the day, it may be time to reassess your sleep habits or speak with a health professional.

Should I stay in bed if I can't fall asleep?

If you're still awake after about half an hour, try getting out of bed and doing something calming in another room. Choose an activity that is quiet and non-stimulating, such as reading or listening to soft music.

Keep the lights low, and return to bed once you feel sleepy again. This can help train your brain to associate your bed with rest rather than frustration.

Can mindfulness really improve sleep?

Mindfulness can support better sleep by helping your body relax and guiding your mind away from anxious or racing thoughts.

Techniques like deep breathing, body scans, or calming visualisation can make it easier to unwind before bed and reduce the time it takes to fall asleep.

Is it a problem to watch TV or use my phone in bed?

Using screens at night, especially in bed, can interfere with your sleep. The light from screens may reduce melatonin production, and engaging or stressful content can keep your mind active.

A screen-free wind-down routine can improve how quickly you fall asleep and how rested you feel in the morning.

When should I speak to someone about my sleep?

If falling asleep is difficult three or more nights a week and this pattern has been going on for several weeks or longer, consider speaking with your GP or a psychologist. You might be experiencing insomnia or another sleep-related condition.

Support is available, and treatments like cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) are highly effective.

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