Myths about high-functioning depression

You show up to work, meet deadlines, and keep up with your responsibilities. To others, you seem organised, capable, and happy. Yet beneath that appearance, you may feel exhausted, unmotivated, or disconnected from things you once enjoyed.

Some people spend considerable energy maintaining their usual routines while struggling with feelings they rarely discuss. They may not even recognise that what they're experiencing could be depression.

This experience is often called high-functioning depression. Although the term has become more widely used, misconceptions about depression can make its less visible symptoms difficult to recognise.

What is high-functioning depression?

High-functioning depression is an informal term for experiencing depressive symptoms while continuing to meet many everyday responsibilities.

Someone may maintain a demanding career, care for their family, and stay socially active while feeling persistently low or emotionally drained. Although they appear to be coping, these activities may require considerable effort.

Importantly, high-functioning depression isn't a recognised clinical diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR).

People who identify with the term may have major depressive disorder (MDD), persistent depressive disorder (PDD), or another mental health condition. Others may experience depressive symptoms without meeting the criteria for a specific diagnosis.

The key distinction is that outward functioning alone can't tell us how someone is feeling or how severely their mental health is affected.

Myth 1: If you can function normally, you can't be depressed

Depression is often associated with difficulty working, socialising, or completing everyday tasks. While these challenges are common, some people continue meeting their responsibilities despite experiencing considerable distress.

You might perform well at work but feel too exhausted to prepare dinner afterwards. Or you may enjoy spending time with friends while struggling with a persistent low mood when you're alone.

Some people push through their symptoms because they feel responsible for others or fear disappointing them. But over time, maintaining this appearance can become exhausting.

Myth 2: High-functioning depression is always mild

The term high-functioning can suggest that someone's depression is relatively mild. However, a person's ability to maintain their usual activities doesn't reliably indicate symptom severity.

Major depressive disorder (MDD) involves depressive episodes lasting at least two weeks, alongside specific symptoms and clinical criteria. Persistent depressive disorder (PDD), on the other hand, involves depressed mood lasting at least two years in adults, with additional diagnostic requirements.

People with either condition may appear high-functioning, but the informal term doesn't establish a diagnosis. A mental health professional can assess the nature, duration, and impact of symptoms to determine whether someone has a depressive disorder.

Myth 3: People with high-functioning depression always look sad

Depression doesn't always involve visible sadness, crying, or withdrawal. Some people appear cheerful and sociable while experiencing emotional difficulties that others rarely notice.

For some, depression feels more like numbness or disconnection than sadness. Others experience persistent irritability, frustration, or exhaustion.

Symptoms may also include changes in sleep or appetite, difficulty concentrating, reduced motivation, and increased self-criticism. These experiences vary, and no single symptom confirms depression.

Someone can laugh with friends or enjoy a special occasion while experiencing ongoing mental health difficulties. Positive moments don't automatically rule out depression.

Myth 4: Successful people are less likely to experience depression

A fulfilling career, financial stability, and supportive relationships can contribute to wellbeing, but they don't make someone immune to depression.

Depression can involve genetic vulnerability, stressful experiences, ongoing health conditions, and psychological factors. A person's achievements don't eliminate these influences.

For some people, perfectionism may add to their emotional strain. They might consistently meet high expectations while feeling that their efforts are never good enough.

Plus, perfectionism, cultural expectations, and the pressure to maintain appearances may contribute to depressive symptoms being overlooked.

Myth 5: If you still enjoy things, you can't have depression

Depression doesn't necessarily mean feeling unhappy all the time. Someone may still enjoy spending time with family, sharing a laugh, or celebrating an achievement.

However, they may notice that enjoyable experiences feel less rewarding than before. Activities they once looked forward to might begin to feel like obligations.

One recognised symptom of depression is anhedonia, which refers to a reduced ability to experience pleasure or interest.

For example, someone might continue attending social events but feel disconnected from others. They may pursue familiar hobbies without the same enthusiasm.

Occasional enjoyment doesn't cancel out a persistent pattern of low mood or reduced interest. If you've noticed lasting changes in how you feel, a healthcare professional can help you understand what may be contributing to them.

Myth 6: It’s just burnout

Burnout and depression can share symptoms, including exhaustion, reduced motivation, and difficulty concentrating. However, they're not the same condition.

The World Health Organization describes burnout as an occupational phenomenon resulting from chronic workplace stress that hasn't been successfully managed. It can involve exhaustion, cynicism towards work, and reduced professional effectiveness.

Depression is a mental health condition that can affect many areas of life, including relationships, sleep, self-esteem, and enjoyment of everyday activities.

Someone experiencing burnout may feel particularly overwhelmed by work, while someone with depression may experience persistent difficulties across different situations.

The two can also occur together. If you're unsure what's contributing to ongoing exhaustion or low mood, a GP or mental health professional can help assess your symptoms.

Myth 7: Positive thinking can overcome high-functioning depression

Advice such as "look on the bright side" or "focus on what you've got" is often well-intentioned. However, it can leave someone experiencing depression feeling misunderstood.

Depression isn't simply a negative mindset. You can appreciate the positive aspects of your life while experiencing sadness, emotional numbness, or hopelessness.

Pressure to remain positive may also increase feelings of guilt. Someone might believe they have no reason to feel depressed, making it harder to acknowledge their symptoms.

Healthy routines, supportive relationships, and enjoyable activities can benefit mental wellbeing, but they aren't substitutes for appropriate treatment.

Psychological therapies, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), can help people recognise unhelpful thought patterns, understand their emotions, and develop practical coping strategies.

Myth 8: It will eventually go away on its own

When you're still managing everyday responsibilities, it can be tempting to dismiss persistent emotional difficulties as temporary. You may expect to feel better once work becomes less demanding, you've had a holiday, or you're getting enough sleep.

Sometimes, symptoms improve as circumstances change. However, depression can also persist, recur, or become more difficult to manage without treatment.

Over time, ongoing symptoms may affect your relationships, concentration, physical health, and overall wellbeing.

If you've noticed a lasting change in your mood, energy, or enjoyment of life, consider discussing it with a healthcare professional. You don't have to wait until your daily routine becomes difficult to manage.

Myth 9: You only need therapy when things become unbearable

People who appear to be coping well sometimes hesitate to seek therapy because they believe their symptoms aren't serious enough.

They may compare themselves with others or worry that a therapist won't understand why they're struggling when their life seems stable.

However, therapy can be beneficial before symptoms become severe or significantly disrupt everyday life. A therapist can help you explore persistent mood changes, understand sources of emotional strain, and develop strategies for managing difficult thoughts and feelings.

Depending on your symptoms and circumstances, treatment may involve CBT, interpersonal therapy, antidepressant medication, or a combination of approaches.

A GP can assess your mental and physical health, discuss treatment options, and explain eligibility for Medicare-subsidised mental health services in Australia. Plus, seeking professional support earlier may help you address difficulties before they become harder to manage.

Final thoughts

High-functioning depression is often misunderstood because its symptoms aren't always visible. Someone may maintain a successful career, enjoy social activities, and fulfil their responsibilities while experiencing significant emotional distress.

Recognising these misconceptions can help you look beyond outward appearances and pay closer attention to changes in your emotional wellbeing.

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